For several months a big white sign with a big question mark was placed outside the building at 1970 Montauk Highway in Bridgehampton. The wait is over, and the new restaurant there, Armin and Judy, is wonderful.

Ursula Von Rydingsvard came to New York City in 1975, when she was 33. “I feel that is when I was born,” she says in a new documentary by Daniel Traub that will be shown Friday evening at the Parrish Art Museum.