Everyone loves cookies. Cookies are so good they have their own monster. No other food has a monster, does it? Does lasagna have a monster? Cheetos? No, only cookies.

Cookie Monster, who came out of the brilliant mind of Jim Henson in 1966, started life in commercials for snack foods and IBM. By the time “Sesame Street” first aired in 1969, he had become a blue, furry, clumsy creature whose grammar was atrocious and appetite for cookies insatiable. The cookies for the show were made of rice cakes, which were painted and dotted with a glue gun to look like that ultimate cookie, the chocolate chip. Real cookies would have messed up the puppet costume.

The word “cookie” most likely comes from the Dutch word “koekje,” which means “small or little cake.” They are called biscuits in England and Australia, galletas in Spain, and kok in Germany. According to the website What’s Cooking America, the first cookies may have been test cakes, drops of batter used to test an oven’s temperature for baking. But cookies have really been around since seventh-century Persia, one of the first countries to cultivate and process sugar and put it into cakes and pastries.

One of the earliest cookbooks with a recipe for cookies was the 1596 “Goode Huswife’s Jewel” by Thomas Dawson. “Take fine flowre and good Damaske water you must have no other liquer but that, then take sweet butter, two or three yolkes of eggs, and a good quantity of sugar, and a few cloves and mace, as your Cookes mouth shall serve him, and a lyttle saffron, and a little God’s good about a spoonful if you put in too much they shall arise,” and the recipe continues in this stream of consciousness manner for a whole paragraph.

Desserts and cookies did not earn a chapter in cookbooks for a while. They were listed in the back of cookery books as Jumbles, Plunkets, and Cry Babies.

Some historians believe fortune cookies came about during the 12th and 13th centuries when Chinese soldiers would sneak rice paper messages into mooncakes to help coordinate battles against Mongolian invaders. Apparently they knew the Mongolians didn’t like the lotus nut paste traditionally put into the cakes. Chu Yuan Chang, a political revolutionary, disguised himself as a Taoist priest, entered occupied walled cities armed with mooncakes that had instructions for coordinating the uprising, and thus began the Ming Dynasty.

Cookies have also been described by the great baker Maida Heatter as a form of diplomacy. Indeed, I have used the gift of a platter of cookies many times to sway, seduce, bribe, thank, comfort — you name it; cookies can do it. I have gotten into yard sales early by taking cookies, and my son’s grades may have improved a fraction by a gift of cookies at a parent-teacher conference.

One of my favorite ways of sharing cookies has been in the restaurant business. As a pastry chef, I would always have the kitchen to myself in the early morning hours. The only company was a radio and the constant flow of delivery men and women from Dairyland, Baldor, Gosman’s, Cromer’s, Satur Farms, Braun Seafood, Balsam Farms, wine distributors, and many more. Being able to offer a cookie or two and a cup of coffee to these guys who had been battling traffic all alone was a treat for me. Sometimes the favor would be returned in the form of a little fillet of Spanish mackerel from Fuzzy, a family recipe for grilled shrimp from Gosman’s, some extra arugula from Patty of Early Girl Farm.

At one restaurant I worked for in East Hampton, the owner was not too terribly up to date on paying his bills. A large, very large, ponytailed gentleman would show up frequently in a chauffeur-driven Cadillac and come through the back door looking for his money. He was scary but polite to me, and I plied him with more biscotti and espressos than was probably necessary. He knew I didn’t have anything to do with the payroll, but he was still sending a Sopranos-style message through me to the owner.

I also loved having enough cookies on hand for the staff. This would drive some of my colleagues batty (Alexandra!) but to me it was important for them to be able to just grab a little treat during a long, brutal shift of busing, waiting tables, washing dishes, and cooking.

Is baking cookies a lost art? I hope not, because cookies are one of the fastest and cheapest things you can whip up for a snack or dessert. Make enough dough, roll it into logs, and freeze it. Now you’ve got cookies anytime you want. They can be healthy oatmeal with dried fruit and nuts, or gooey, rich, decadent chocoholic delights. 

You can tailor your cookie selections to match menus and seasons. In winter, after a hearty soup or stew, it’s nice to have ginger molasses cookies or hermits. In summer, after some grilled fish and salad, lemony cookies with a sorbet are perfect. Soon we will have local strawberries, followed by peaches, plums, blueberries, and raspberries. A bowl of berries with a simple, crisp cookie is a homemade dessert, just not a lot of work.

If you’re interested in composing a cookie platter, think about texture, color, and taste. You should always have America’s favorite — chocolate chip — along with oatmeal, perhaps pecan sandies, and the aforementioned lemon cookie. Biscotti last forever, they’re easy as pie to make, and they’re good for dunking into coffee.

For an Italian-themed meal you could make marzipan pine nut cookies and amaretti. For a Moroccan feast, make some cardamom-scented almond cookies and apricot-jam-filled sugar cookies. French: tuiles and cat’s tongues. American barbecue: brownies and snickerdoodles. You get the idea, now get baking! 

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A new Greek restaurant called Calissa will open on Montauk Highway in Water Mill this weekend, taking over the space occupied a few years back by  Trata East and a slew of short-lived followers.

Inspired by the island of Mykonos, Calissa was previewed in April in an upstairs room at Amali, a Mediterrean-style Greek restaurant in Manhattan, with James Mallios, its managing partner, as host. Mr. Mallios is among the partners also responsible for the New York City restaurants Periyali and Il Cantinori. Unlike the transitory boites of recent summers on the South Fork, the group has signed a long-term lease, indicating a commitment to the area.

For Water Mill, Mr. Mallios promised a Mediterranean piazza vibe and an open-air feeling in the bar and patio. The aesthetic and design will be simple, he said, “inspired by the classic beauty of Mykonos.” 

From the Amali menu, created by Dominic Rice, the executive chef who previously worked at Narcissa and Jean- Georges, foods were served at a long table family style, emphasizing both small and large plates. They included chunky takes on traditional Greek spreads, such as melizana, made from “blistered” eggplant, honey, and mint, and something called kafteri, with chunks of Greek cheese such as feta, and chiles, both served with stacks of warm pita.

A warm salad of grilled romaine lettuce with cherry tomatoes, kopanisti cheese, lamb bacon, and walnuts was a creative take on the familiar wedge. Spit-roasted baby carrots on yogurt with pea tendrils and a surprise platter of tender octopus with potatoes — la plancha — rounded out the appetizers.

The entrees were a lobster bucatini, dry-aged lamb with tzatziki, green beans, and rosemary, and a salt-baked whole red snapper presented in a crust and served in small chunks with dill, olive oil, and lemon.

An indication of what to expect at Calissa might come from a 2014 two-fork Michelin Guide rating of Periyali, which noted it had “maintained not only its popularity but a high standard of cuisine and service” for more than two decades. Similarly, Frank Bruni, in The New York Times in 2005, said, “If you remember what Periyali was like three years or 10 years or even 15 years ago, you know what it’s like today.” That’s a feat few restaurants in New York City and on the South Fork can claim.

Calissa will be open daily at 5 p.m. during the summer, but closed on Tuesdays in May, June, September, and October.

Lulu Kitchen and Bar

126 Main Street

Sag Harbor

631-725-0900

Seven days

Lulu Kitchen and Bar opened on Sag Harbor’s Main Street a few weeks ago and I like it very much. 

It is big and beautiful with an open kitchen, a wood-burning oven, and a trellised patio in the back. The space has always had a long, narrow railroad car feel to it but now it has graduated from the Acela to the Orient Express. It has rustic wood floors, exposed brick walls, skylights, and lots of smoky mirrors. There are banquettes, comfortable leather chairs, and a long zinc bar.

The open kitchen, which is about midway through the restaurant, has dramatic displays of the house-made breads, and tall glass cylinders filled with heads of cauliflower, kind of like those restaurants with lobster tanks where you point to the crustacean you’d like to eat. Whole roasted cauliflower is the “bloomin’ onion” of the moment, and this place does a real showstopper version of it.

The bread served before the meal is delicious and chewy and dusty with residual flour. For appetizers we ordered the cauliflower monster, tomato tartare, burrata, Bibb lettuce salad, and some Montauk Pearl oysters. 

The cauliflower comes out on a parchment-paper-covered platter with a big ol’ steak knife in the middle of it. Quelle dramatique! The menu says it’s enough for two to three people but I would say four. It is coated with tahini and white balsamic vinaigrette, drizzled with mint oil, topped with some roasted Long Island grapes, and sprinkled with toasted sesame seeds and microgreens. It isn’t crunchy on the outside, but it does have some satisfying char on it. The slightly smoky, earthy cauliflower pairs well with the tangy grapes. The whole thing was delicious, and there was still enough to take home.

The tomato tartare was a more diminutive portion, beautifully plated with marinated bits of tomato, roasted cherry tomatoes, tiny nibs of string beans, and more microgreens. The burrata was a perfect room temperature blob of milky goodness with more roasted cherry tomatoes, fava beans, capers, and some basil pesto. The Bibb lettuce salad was a tall, generous mound of whole delicate leaves dressed with Lulu Kitchen’s white balsamic vinaigrette which is creamy and a pale shade of pink. Bless you, Lulu Kitchen, for serving this almost forgotten salad green. 

The Montauk Pearl oysters (love these) came with a dish of cocktail sauce and traditional mignonette. The mig­nonette could have been better. It was too sharp, as in pure vinegar, and lacked shallots. Perhaps it just hadn’t been stirred up enough before serving.

For entrees we tried the trufata pizza, vegetable pot au feu, roast chicken, cowboy ribeye steak, and a side order of mac ’n’ cheese. The pizza was very good: thin, blistered, kinda crisp, with mushrooms, stracciatella (truffled), arugula, and a few rings of pickled red onion. 

The vegetable pot au feu intrigued me, and I have to say it did not disappoint. The vegetables — broccoli, carrots, fennel, cherry tomatoes, cauliflower, and fava beans — were artfully arranged in a bowl of rich, meaty broth. I’m guessing it was a meat broth because it was better than any vegetable broth I’ve ever had. There was a somewhat superfluous dab of whole grain mustard on the rim of the bowl, and the menu said there was a smoked aioli as well, but I couldn’t detect it. I loved it nonetheless. 

The roast chicken was a bit of a disappointment because it was way, way overcooked and dry. The potato gratin served with it almost made up for it, for it was a creamy delight. The cowboy steaks were also a bit disappointing. The meat was tender and flavorful but under, or perhaps even, unseasoned. The French fries were hand cut and excellent, and the frizzled romaine leaves had a delicious lemony dressing. The black pepper sauce served with the steak was good but more like a sweet jus than a peppercorn sauce. The mac ’n’ cheese side dish was rich and creamy with a hint of smoked gouda.

The restaurant was hopping on the night of our visit and handling it quite well considering how young it is. The charming manager, Joshua, was warm and welcoming. 

The prices are moderate to expensive. Appetizers and raw bar items range from $12 to $95. (That’s for the seafood platter, which can serve three people or more.) Entrees are $24 to $54, pizzas are $18 to $23, sides are $9, and desserts are $9 to $18.

For dessert we tried a selection of sorbets, molten chocolate cake, and a lemon yuzu tart. The sorbets — we tried passion fruit, melon, and coconut — were good. They were served on a tasty bed of shortbread gravel and garnished with a few berries. The chocolate cake, as is often the case, had been baked past the molten stage and had reached the fully cooked yet still moist stage. It had good flavor, though, and the salted caramel ice cream and dabs of caramel sauce on the plate were good. The lemon yuzu tart was the best of all and as pretty as could be. Yuzu is an aromatic citrus fruit, similar to grapefruit or Meyer lemon, common in Japan and Korea. This tart had a crisp crust, a very tart lemon-yuzu curd filling, and was adorned with whipped créme fraiche and creme fraiche ice cream.

Most of my guests, handsome young fellows each and every one, said they would come back, but probably just for drinks and appetizers. One said he’d come back for the great pizza and that it was a welcome addition to Sag Harbor. I’ll be back because I live in the ’hood, they’re going to be open year round, and I found enough divine and interesting dishes to go back for. Often.

A new evening farmers market will open next Thursday and take place weekly from 5 to 8 p.m. on the grounds of Calvary Baptist Church in East Hampton. 

The farmers market at the Hayground School on Mitchell Lane in Bridgehampton opens tomorrow and can be visited weekly through Sept. 1 from 3 to 6:30 p.m. 

Now Open

Wolffer Kitchen has opened in Amagansett Square, where the Meeting House used to be, and is serving dinner nightly. There is a salad menu, a tapas menu, “chilled and raw” selections, wood-oven pizzas, a selection of “veggies and legumes” sides, and five main courses to choose from: fluke, scallops, sirloin steak, salmon, or wild shrimp. 

At East Hampton Point, which opens this holiday weekend, Craig Atwood, who served as the restaurant’s chef from 2008 to 2010, has returned this year and revamped the menu. On the raw bar menu are a locally caught ceviche with pineapple, coconut milk, and chiles, tuna poke, and steak tartare with quail egg, spring onion, and wild mushroom.  Small plates can be ordered — a smoked bluefish paté, blue crab toast, grilled Spanish octopus, salads, and Berkshire pork ribs. Among the entree selections are roasted Atlantic skate, East End bouillabaisse, strip steak, and wild mushroom risotto. 

Beginning today, East Hampton Point will be serving dinner Thursdays through Sundays starting at 5 p.m., and lunch starting at noon on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays. The hours will expand in late June. Sunday nights are reggae nights, with live music from 6 to 9, beginning with the Dan Bailey Tribe this week, when there will also be a $45 pig roast dinner special that includes a Montauk Brewing Company draft.

In Montauk, Solé East is kicking off the summer season at its Backyard Restaurant with live music throughout the weekend. Marcello and Ludmilla will play bossa nova during a poolside brunch to be served on Sunday from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Rosé Soirée

Dan’s Taste of Summer culinary events begin this weekend with Dan’s Rosé Soirée on Sunday at the Southampton Arts Center on Job’s Lane from 5 to 8 p.m. There will be more than 30 types of rosé to taste, and food from top chefs and restaurants including Baron’s Cove, Loaves and Fishes, and the East Pole. An after-party featuring Rock Angel rosé will take place from 8 to 10 p.m. Tickets are $125 or $185, which includes the after-party. A limited number of tickets to the after-party only are available for $85 each. All can be ordered online. 

New at Montauk Yacht Club

The new restaurant at the Montauk Yacht Club, called Coast Kitchen, is headed by chef Richard Hebson. Most recently of First and South in Greenport, he is a graduate of Le Cordon Bleu College of Culinary Arts and a veteran country club chef. Beginning this weekend, the yacht club will open its Sunset Pier outdoor lounge, where cocktails and light bites will be served. The area overlooks a stage where bands will perform. 

Harbor East Is Back

Harbor East is opening tonight on Three Mile Harbor Road in East Hampton. Featuring “contemporary farm-to-table cuisine,” according to a press release, it is a project of two New York City restaurateurs, James Willis and Andrew Mole, with Jason Hook as the chef. Mr. Hook has worked under several well-known chefs, including Alain Ducasse, Jean-Georges Vongerichten, and Philippe Legendre. The restaurant, at the site of a series of nightclubs, will have dancing starting at about 11 p.m. and will serve dinner Fridays through Sundays for now. 

Bid on a Fire-Roasted Meal

Opening bids are $2,500 for a June 23 lunch for 10 to be prepared and served outdoors at the Sylvester Manor farm on Shelter Island by Fire Roasted Catering, a Berkshires-based concern. The meal will be tailored to the winning bidder’s personal tastes and served family style, from starters through dessert. It will be paired with local wines. 

Bids can be placed, in $150 increments, by calling the farm office, through Friday, June 2, at 4 p.m. The winner, who will be notified by phone, can choose to work with the chef to forage and harvest fresh produce, learn open-fire cooking techniques by working in the field kitchen, or simply sit back and enjoy. The auction is a fund-raiser for the Sylvester Manor Annual Fund. Winning bid amounts above $2,000 will be tax deductible. 

Here is the latest roundup of local celebrity cookbooks. One of them “Living Clearly,” is more of a healthy lifestyle with yoga instruction book by Hilaria Baldwin, the wife of the actor Alec Baldwin. Another is titled “Food Swings” and is by Jessica Seinfeld, philanthropist and wife of the comedian Jerry Seinfeld. The third is by Ina Garten, who is famous in her own right for her cooking, cookbooks, and television show, “Barefoot Contessa.” This is her 10th cookbook, titled “Cooking for Jeffrey.”

Ms. Baldwin’s book is full of the pictures you may have seen of her on Instagram, striking impossible poses in public places, sometimes looking like a petite Catwoman in six-inch-heeled boots, stretched across a fire escape high in the sky. Many pictures are of her with Alec and their babies, cozy and sweet. She is exceptionally beautiful and her book is well written. It is basically an instruction manual on how to apply the five principles of yoga (perspective, breathing, grounding, balance, and letting go) to all aspects of your life. 

She suggests that in order to have a healthy relationship with food (ruh-roh!) you need to follow five similar principles, which she calls the Five Big Ideas: Choose quality, green your plate, make friends with fat, nix the tricky snacks, and don’t forget to hydrate. It turns out that Hilaria, for a good part of her young life (20 years of it), suffered from bulimia. She says “in all my years of teaching, I have yet to find one person who has always had a completely healthy relationship with food,” and “it took me years to develop a clear and healthy relationship with eating.” It’s a distressing revelation, but it should be no surprise to any of us that many professional ballet dancers, gymnasts, models, and other athletes suffer from eating disorders.

The section of her book that is about food is well balanced and has some tasty sounding recipes. She does not shy away from the use of plenty of garlic and lemons and spices to make things interesting. The chile-lime dressing looks like it would be good on anything, and especially good as a marinade for fish right before you pop it on the grill. While all the recipes are healthy, there are some creative twists, like a vegetarian version of hearty shepherd’s pie, a riff on paella, and a decadent (kinda) carrot cake with coconut cream icing. While most of the book is about yoga and has detailed photos of poses, it is also a warm and revealing book  about Ms. Baldwin’s life and how she has learned how to “live clearly.” Brava.

Ina Garten’s 10th tome, “Cooking for Jeffrey,” is pretty much like most of her other cookbooks, which is a good thing for her diehard fans. The housewife in Ohio will always be able to find the ingredients for these recipes: chicken, chicken, steak, veg, apples, and other supermarket staples. What gives the book its charm are the stories about her meeting her husband of almost 50 years (they met when she was sixteen), their courtship, their early life together, their high-powered careers in Washington, D.C., and her decision to open the first Barefoot Contessa shop in Westhampton Beach, all moves and actions that her husband fully supported. She calls him “the first feminist I ever knew.” Their love story is genuine; the spark and curiosity remain bright.

But will you find any new and exciting recipes in this volume? I’m sorry to say that I did not. In almost every other Barefoot Contessa cookbook I have dog-eared a page and thought “that looks amazing, I can’t wait to try that dish.” This one is certainly a good book, and if you are a collector of her books, as I am, you will perhaps find a new way to bake a chicken, roast a ribeye steak, poach a lobster, or assemble a shrimp salad.

Of the three books, I must confess that Jessica Seinfeld’s “Food Swings” was my favorite. The concept is clever: The first half of the book is virtuous recipes and the second half has somewhat more indulgent dishes. She preaches moderation, which is really the only thing you need to know about food and nutrition. Moderation. Preach, sister.

When I turned to the first page and was greeted by a pan of frosted, swirly, homemade cinnamon buns, I said, “Be still my heart” and “Where is scratch ’n’ sniff when you need it?”

Ms. Seinfeld’s first books had cumbersome titles like “Deceptively Delicious, Simple Secrets to Get Your Kids Eating Good Food,” and “Double Delicious! Good, Simple Food for Busy Complicated Lives.” “Food Swings” is a good title. Get it? Like mood swings? 

The Virtue half of the book has riffs on popular foods of the moment like kale salad and Brussels sprouts. Onions and almonds go into the kale to make it better, and toasted hazelnuts and Parmesan cheese perk up the Brussels sprouts

Growing up with a working mother, Jessica learned to cook and help feed the family at an early age. The anecdotes about her granny are hilarious. Granny had no tolerance for “food allergies” and “was big with the eye roll when it came to food issues.” Cocktail hour at the grandparents included NPR on the radio, many guests coming and going, and conversations so engaging that sometimes they forgot to get around to dinner. “These evenings instilled in me a love of gregarious company, great food and good booze.”

The Virtue section also has vegetarian meatballs that look very tasty and a dish called “sp’eggs” a baked spinach, egg, and cheese combo that I’m going to try very soon. The Vice section, however, already has some dog-eared pages: salad with crispy prosciutto, green enchiladas made with fresh poblano peppers, lemon macaroon pie, coconut rum cake, crispy chorizo rice with crisp eggs, peach and sriracha chicken over coconut rice. . . .

When Ms. Seinfeld first started dating Jerry, he wanted to take her out for dinner. She demured, saying she’d rather cook for him. “You cook?!” he exclaimed. Yes, she can, and yes, she does.

I enjoyed all three books. Ms. Baldwin’s for her touching story and Ms. Garten’s to add to the collection. “Food Swings,” though, will be the one getting the most use and spatters of stain in my kitchen.

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All kinds of fresh produce are coming into season, and farm stands and farmers markets are reopening for the year to sell the bounty. 

The East Hampton Farmers Market had its inaugural day on Friday and will continue weekly from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. on North Main Street, while the Springs Farmers Market begins its season on Saturday outside Ashawagh Hall, where it will take place weekly at those same hours.

A new evening farmers market will begin June 1 on the grounds of Calvary Baptist Church in East Hampton and take place weekly from 5 to 8 p.m. through August.

The Balsam Farms farm stand on Town Lane in Amagansett opens for its 15th season today and will remain open seven days a week from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. Early crops, such as asparagus, arugula, spinach, kale, radishes, and other greens are available now. The farm stand will also sell its own canned, pickled, and preserved foods, along with items from other East End food producers, including Carissa’s Breads, the Blue Duck Bakery, Mary’s Marvelous, and Mecox Bay Dairy. Eggs from Iacono Farm and Browder’s Birds will be available, along with Bee’s Needs honey, Joe and Liza’s ice cream, and more.

The farm still has community-supported agriculture memberships available for this season. 

At Felice’s 

Astro Pizza and Felice’s restaurant in Amagansett is offering weekday dinner specials for $15 and specials on the weekends for $17. Children up to age 12 dining with their families can, for $12, order a pizza and select toppings to customize it, tableside, before the pie goes back into the oven. During a hiatus over the winter, the restaurant was renovated, with 15 additional seats added to the dining area and the pizza parlor side of the restaurant reduced in size. 

Deals at 1770 House

The downstairs tavern at the 1770 House in East Hampton will continue to offer a $17.70 Thursday-night special through June. It includes a choice of a burger, meatloaf, Korean barbecue ribs, or chicken parmigiana. House wine is available by the glass for $9 and house beers for $5.

For three more weeks, until June 8, the main restaurant is also offering a three-course prix fixe on weekdays for $35. Neither deal will be available over Memorial Day weekend. 

Arbor Reopens

Arbor restaurant in Montauk reopens today for its second season and has added an outdoor bar and dining room this year. The outdoor bar, open Thursdays through Sundays beginning Memorial Day weekend, will feature specialty cocktails by mixologists from the Garret, a New York City-based cocktail purveyor. Arbor will serve dinner Thursdays through Mondays until mid-June, when it will adopt a seven-day-a-week schedule. 

Rosé a Go-Go

More than 50 rosé wines from Provence, Sancerre, California, Italy, Oregon, Corsica, Spain, Washington State, and other locations will be available for tasting at a spring preview at Wainscott Main Wine and Spirits on Saturday from 2 to 5 p.m. 

For decades, serious foodies have been coming to the East End to partake of the simple pleasures of its summer produce and seafood. Later, they showed up at harvest time for its wine tastings and fine restaurants. More recently, they have left the city to live here year round and produce their own organic food products, such as heirloom wheat, honey, beer, distilled spirits, and fermented vegetables.

This year’s Food Lab Conference, to be held at Stony Brook Southampton the weekend of June 9, will celebrate this dynamic nature of food, both nationally and close to home, from 1970 through the near future. Speakers will include Bobby Flay, Michel Nischan, and David Barber.  

On Friday, a V.I.P. reception at the School of Marine and Atmospheric Science on Shinnecock Bay will welcome major donors, panelists, and other grandees with cocktails, and a seafood bar. A discussion with Mr. Flay and a general reception will follow. He will discuss his own take on food, cooking, and food television, where he has become famous as one of its earliest and continuing stars.  

Mr. Barber, with his brother Dan Barber, owns Blue Hill, a 138-acre family farm in Great Barrington, Mass. The farm became the inspiration for restaurants in Greenwich Village and at the Stone Barns Center for Food and Agriculture in Westchester County, where he is a founding partner. Both Blue Hill restaurants have been honored with the James Beard Outstanding Restaurant Award. He is also an “angel investor,” providing seed money to start-up food and hospitality companies. His talk will be focused on future food trends and the role of new technologies in guiding them.

A chef and leader in the sustainable food movement — and another James Beard Foundation Award winner — Mr. Nischan is the founder, president, and chief executive of Wholesome Wave, a nonprofit that increases access to healthy food in low-income areas. He is also a founder of the Chefs Action Network, and a founder and partner in the former Dressing Room Restaurant with Paul Newman, the actor, food marketer, and benefactor, who died in 2008. He will discuss food activism.

Participants in panels or other events will include Tanya Steel, the founder of the Obama White House Kids Healthy Cooking initiative; Florence Fabricant, an author and New York Times food writer; Alex Prud’homme, a biographer of Julia Child; Leslie Merinoff, the founder of Matchbook Distillery, and Claudia Fleming, the chef and owner of the North Fork Table and Inn. 

Panel discussions will address the history of and recent trends in restaurants, home cooking, beverages, and nutrition. Cheryl Stair, of the South Fork caterer Art of Eating, will be the chef for the gala dinner on Saturday. Hamptons Aristocrat, Martine Abitbol, and Bex Waffles food truck will provide other food for the conference. 

This year, the organizers have restructured the conference to free up Sunday for relaxing or other personal pursuits with all activities and events taking place on Friday and Saturday only.

Discounted early-bird tickets will be on sale at the Food Lab website through Monday for $100 for general admission. After that, the price for the weekend rises to $150. Discounted tickets for students and farmers are available for $75. The V.I.P. cocktail party costs $2,500.

This article has been updated from the print version to include a recent change to the Food Lab conference's schedule. Bobby Flay, who was originally scheduled to speak at the V.I.P. reception, will now speak to all conference participants on June 9.

Mother’s Day is celebrated on different days and in many ways around the world.  In Thailand, it is celebrated on Aug. 12, the birthday of Queen Sirikit. Shrines are built, fireworks go off, and children present their mothers with garlands of jasmine flowers, which represent maternal love.

In Ethiopia, families gather to feast for several days in honor of motherhood on a holiday known as Antrosht, held at the end of the rainy season. Everyone brings ingredients for a meat hash, which the mothers prepare. Hmm, doesn’t sound like the day of pampering we have here in America.

In Mexico, Mother’s Day is always May 10. Mariachi bands are hired to serenade moms and big breakfasts of tamales and atole are served.

Americans spend $170 per family on Mother’s Day, according to the National Retail Foundation. Fifty percent of households buy cards, phone lines get jammed up, florists rejoice, and restaurants make a bundle on brunches. It is always celebrated on the second Sunday in May. I am proud to say that my one and only son, Billy, has mastered the art of Mother’s Day. There have always been homemade cards, very creative with glued-on Legos when he was little and manga illustrations during the years he was obsessed with all things Japanese. I was always mystified by the imagery of racecars and Harajuku girls, however, and wondered how they related to Mother’s Day. I have also received many IOUs for housecleaning, meal cooking, dog walking, weed pulling, car washing, etc., and usually get a bar or two of my favorite soaps, lavender and verbena. In other words, he was raised up right, if I do say so myself. 

When he asked what I wanted for Mother’s Day this year, I told him I’d like a paragraph to complete this column. I assured him it needn’t be sappy or emotional. Such expressions make him extremely uncomfortable, but I would like it to reflect his wit and humor.

A few years ago I decided that the greatest gift I have ever received came into this world on Aug. 13, 1987, at 2:30 p.m., eight pounds, six ounces, 21 inches of Adrian William Taylor, sound of wind and limb. So now we celebrate Mother’s Day by me cooking for him. Don’t get me wrong, there is still plenty of weed pulling, mulch layering, and lilac planting on that day by the manly offspring!

The earliest, earliest celebrations celebrating mothers are believed to have begun with the ancient Greeks and Romans, who worshipped the mother goddesses Rhea and Cybele. In spring in Rome a festival called Megalensia was held to celebrate Cybele, “mistress of wild nature, a healer, and goddess of fertility and protectress in time of war.” These festivals involved a good bit of bloodletting, twirling around, castration, and sacrifices, so let’s be glad those days are over.

The origins of our Mother’s Day go back to the days before the Civil War. Ann Reeves Jarvis of West Virginia, created Mother’s Day work clubs to help teach women how to care for their children. In 1868 she organized Mothers Friendship Day, in an effort to care for and unite former Confederate and Union soldiers.

The abolitionist and suffragette Julia Ward Howe wrote a Mother’s Day proclamation (not to mention “The Battle Hymn of the Republic”) urging women to help promote world peace.

When Ann Reeves Jarvis died in 1905, her daughter Anna Jarvis proposed a specific Mother’s Day to acknowledge the sacrifices mothers made for their children. With backing from John Wanamaker of the Wanamaker department stores in Philadelphia, the first official Mother’s Day was celebrated in May 1908. She encouraged florists to sell white carnations in honor of mothers who had died and pink or red for those living. Over the ensuing years, she started letter-writing campaigns, lobbied politicians, and by 1914 had convinced President Woodrow Wilson to sign a measure establishing the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day. 

Ironically, Ms. Jarvis (who never married nor had any children) came to dislike the commercialization of the day and spent her remaining years filing lawsuits and badmouthing florists, candy makers, and even charities. She died penniless in a sanitarium.

The words my son sent me were not the funny and witty musings I had expected and asked for, nor are they sappy. They are heart-wrenching and reminded me of the things we have survived together: my cancer (22 years clean), divorce, moves, being kind of broke sometimes, a bad car accident, and the things we continue to endure together, like the death of his father three years ago from pancreatic cancer.

Food is the thread throughout his passage as it is throughout our lives. He makes me sound like a hero, but I’m not. I’m just a mom.

“Food has always been central to my mom’s life and livelihood — and by extension, my mom and I. Good times, dark times, lean times — a delicious meal or snack were never far removed from these periods. I remember the delicious, impossibly juicy home-cooked ‘chicken-in-a-bag,’ a staple throughout my middle school years. Her homemade Lunchable snack pack I got after leg surgery in sixth grade (healthier than the real thing, and with identifiable ingredients!). The peanut butter and jelly sandwich she made for me after we were in a serious car accident, just minutes after she got out of the hospital with a badly injured leg. These still resonate with me today as a testament to her toughness and love.”

“Most memorable in recent years was an epic Edna Lewis Southern spread for my 27th birthday. All of the amazing qualities that inhabit my mother’s being — fierce passion, limitless kindness, humor, boundless creativity, and energy, were all evident on that table of ham biscuits, watermelon rind pickles, and deviled eggs.”

“I love my mom. My mom is the best. I mean, so is yours . . . but mine especially.”

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If Mother’s Day calls for a meal out on Sunday, our local restaurants will be offering some celebratory deals. 

At Nick and Toni’s in East Hampton, there will be both brunch and dinner a la carte specials on Mother’s Day. Brunch will be served from 11:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. Dinner service will begin at 6. 

In Southampton, the Red/Bar Bras­serie and its related eatery, Little/Red will have specials on Sunday. Little/Red will offer a la carte brunch items from 11:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. in addition to the regular lunch menu. A la carte specials at Red/Bar Brasserie that day, subject to change, may include cedar plank-roasted Scottish salmon, homemade saffron fettucine, a whole roasted chicken for two. 

The Southampton Inn’s new restaurant, Claude’s, will serve a Mom-mosa cocktail to those eligible on Sunday, when they order from the breakfast menu, served from 7 to 11 a.m. Claude’s is open daily from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. for both indoor and al fresco dining, when the weather permits.

The Gulf Coast Kitchen at the Montauk Yacht Club will have a Mother’s Day brunch from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. for $47.95 per person, or $19.99 for children aged 12 and under. Tax and tip are extra. A children’s menu will be available. Among the anticipated menu items are a raw seafood bar, carving station, chef’s table featuring lobster ravioli, cioppino, tomato-crusted black bass, and chicken francaise, and a dessert station with a chocolate fondue fountain and more. 

Also in Montauk, Navy Beach will honor mothers with a complimentary Bloody Mary or mimosa along with their meal. A three-course lunch will be served from noon to 4 p.m. and cost $45, plus tax and tip. The menu will include soup or salad to start, a choice of grilled salmon, a burger, or cavatelli pasta with eggplant ragu, and dessert of the day. The a la carte menu will also be available.

At Solé East in Montauk, the Backyard restaurant will serve up a Mother’s Day brunch buffet, and include live music on the lawn from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. The pool will be open, and adults will be offered a free mimosa or Bloody Mary. The cost is $46 per person or $20 for children below age 12.

At Manna

At Manna restaurant in Water Mill, Marco Barrila, the chef, is preparing a Wednesday night Italian meal, focusing on different regions. During May, cuisine from Tuscany will be the highlight. In addition, Manna offers a nightly blue plate special for $25 and will have a prix fixe menu on Sunday for Mother’s Day.

Spring Has Sprung

Round Swamp Farm markets are reopening for the season on Friday, May 19. Both the East Hampton farm market on Three Mile Harbor Road and the Bridgehampton market behind Main Street will be open from 8 a.m. to 6 p.m. 

Bay Kitchen Bar, overlooking Three Mile Harbor at the Harbor Marina in Springs, reopens next Thursday. There will be a happy hour daily from 4 to 7 p.m. during which glasses of rosé will be offered for $5, and oysters for $1 apiece. 

Gosman’s Fish Market at the Montauk docks is now open for the season. Along with seafood, the market also sells specialty meats, fresh produce, baked goods, and other prepared foods.

Bookings Open

The EMP Summer House, a pop-up restaurant to be opened in East Hampton this summer, is now accepting reservations — but only from American Express cardholders.

Run by Eleven Madison Park, the Manhattan restaurant recently dubbed by an industry group as the world’s best restaurant, EMP Summer House will only accept American Express as credit card payment. The restaurant is setting up shop at the Pantigo Road site most recently occupied by Moby’s, and one must have an American Express card in order to obtain one of the sought-after reservations. Those with platinum cards will be able to attend a number of exclusive events at the restaurant, according to a press release. 

The menu will be centered on seafood and include items such as raw seafood, lobster boils, fluke ceviche, and prawn salad along with landlubbers’ choices such as pastas, steaks, and fried chicken dinners. 

Artists and Writers Night 

The theme of the next Artists and Writers Night at Almond restaurant in Bridgehampton, on Tuesday at 7 p.m., will be “games people play.” A three-course meal will be served family style and cost $45, which includes a glass of local wine or craft beer, and a gratuity. Tax is not included. Reservations are required.

Rosé Tasting

Save a few hours on May 20 for a visit to Wainscott Main Wine and Spirits, which will be presenting a chance to taste more than 50 rosé wines during a spring rosé preview from 2 to 5 p.m.

The tide of restaurants reopening for the season continues to surge. Gosman’s, at the Montauk docks, reopens today and will serve lunch and dinner daily, except Tuesdays, until Memorial Day, when the schedule will run seven days a week.

Also in Montauk, beginning today, Westlake Fish House will be open weekly from Thursdays through Sundays, noon through dinnertime. They are serving brunch daily and sushi, as well as the regular menu.

Cinco de Mayo

The Hamptons Salt Company, with flavor-infused salts that include lime, jalapeno, and ghost pepper, is marking Cinco de Mayo by discounting its “bartender collection” of lemon, lime, and jalapeno salts by $20. Those who use the promo code CINCO may purchase the collection, through Sunday, for $39.99 at HamptonsSalt.com

Derby Day

Another reason to indulge in themed drink and food is coming up on Saturday, when the Kentucky Derby race is run. At Baron’s Cove in Sag Harbor, food and cocktail specials will be offered during a Derby party from 4 to 7 p.m. Special cocktails will include mint juleps and a “blueberry bourbon smash.” 

Baron’s Cove will also celebrate Cinco de Mayo tomorrow, with a bar menu featuring specials on mini tacos and pitchers of margaritas. 

At Union Cantina

Union Cantina in Southampton will celebrate the Mexican fifth of May holiday by offering free passed hors d’oeuvres during a 4 to 7 p.m. happy hour, along with a variety of drink specials, including a lineup of the restaurant’s new summer cocktails. There will be live music as well. In addition, Union Cantina is offering a three-course prix fixe dinner through Saturday.

TALK Is Back

George Hirsch, a well-known Long Island chef who is the author of five cookbooks and had his own cooking show on PBS, will appear on the first episode of the 2017 season of foodTALK, a show produced at East Hampton’s local cable provider, LTV, that focuses on the farm-to-table community on the East End. The show, hosted by Steve Haweeli, will premiere next Thursday at 12:30 p.m., and be rerun at 10:30 p.m., on channel 20. Mr. Hirsch has also appeared on the “Today Show,” “Good Morning America,” “Live with Kelly,” and on MSNBC and CNBC. He is serving as a consultant at Cormaria in Sag Harbor on the retreat center’s new food service operations.  

Mr. Haweeli began foodTALK last year. Guests on the 14 shows produced in its first season included Joe Realmuto and Mark Smith of Nick & Toni’s, Jason Weiner of Almond, Katie Baldwin of Amber Waves Farm, and Jeannie Calderale of Slow Food East End. In addition to its Thursday broadcast times, the show is regularly scheduled at 7:30 a.m. on Fridays and at 1 p.m. on Saturdays. It can also be seen on the LTV website, at ltveh.org, and on LTV’s YouTube channel.