Let's Try Civility
Let's Try Civility
The hot, hazy, humid days of summer are here, and with them come hotheaded, hazardous, humvee-type drivers. The telltale signs are everywhere:
Drivers honking and tailgating because the car in front doesn't speed up fast enough when the light turns green. Or using the shoulder to pass these malingering cars.
Drivers making back roads into late-night speedways, terrifying those trying to enjoy a moonlight stroll.
Drivers using their New York City predatory parking skills to steal spots away from the patiently waiting.
People behind the wheel aren't the only culprits. Those on smaller wheels or foot also pose problems. To wit:
Rollerbladers doing wide zigzags so only half the road is navigable for cars.
Pedestrians crossing Montauk Highway without even a token nod in each direction. Cyclists doing the same.
Mayhem on the roads in summer gets all of us frazzled and even reckless occasionally. Who hasn't ended up making a kamikaze turn to get across the Montauk Highway after losing patience watching an endless flow of traffic? Most of us are culpable. That spells trouble - if not tragedy.
All of us - pedestrians, cyclists, Rollerbladers, and drivers - can be more considerate about sharing the roads. We should try to relax, act civilly, and not treat driving as a competitive sport. For example:
When the traffic is bumper-to-bumper on Montauk Highway, drivers can pause to let in waiting cars from side streets or driveways.
Drivers also can check to see if bicyclists are approaching before opening car doors into oncoming traffic, and they can stop for pedestrians in crosswalks.
Bicyclists and Rollerbladers can move in single file, so cars can pass more easily, and stay on the correct side of the road - that is, with the traffic.
Rollerbladers can be a bit less flamboyant in their strides.
Pedestrians can pay more heed while crossing streets. And stick to the correct side of the road, that is, against the traffic.
As the desk sergeant on "Hill Street Blues" used to say, "Remember, people, be careful out there."